Learning How To Let Go

 

I thought watching you leave was hard. But knowing you weren't coming back was harder.

Have you ever had to watch someone leave out of your life that you wish didn't? Many of us have gone through this, and if you haven't yet, you will someday. Sometimes life just doesn't play fair, and people leave from our lives that we wish to the deepest pits of our hearts, didnt have to.

We have to be willing to learn how to let go! Not everything in life lasts forever. Take the lessons that you learned from dealing with each person that you have come to know in your life, and be sure to use them for the future relationships that you maintain. If you allow it to, the pain that you feel today will build the character of the person you are tomorrow. Continue to push forward, grow as yourself, and to learn from the mistakes of the past, so that problems won't present themselves again to you without you knowing how to handle them.

 
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It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

Sometimes we try to hold on to relationships that just aren't meant to last in our lives because we don't want to feel like we are going to lose out on the investment of our time, and the investment of all of the love that we gave to someone that we thought in our minds we would have around for a lifetime.

  

 Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy.

Are the relationships you involved in today helping to build you up, or helping to build you down? There are many things in life that do nothing but take away from who we are; yet we still continue to indulge ourselves in them, because we fear change.
 
  

 It's hard to hold on to something that you know would never be yours in any way you think of. You just have to learn to let go and face the fact that while good things never last, some don't even start.

Learning to let go is one of the hardest lessons that we must learn, and some of us are able to master it, while others arent so well. Going through a break up can be a destructive experience in your life, or a constructive experience in your life,if you allow for it to be a new beginning.
 
  

 Never lose yourself while trying to hold on to someone who doesn't care about losing you.

One of the biggest mistakes we can make in life is to lose ourselves in a relationship by trying to become someone that other people want us to be. If you have to change who you are to make a relationship work, your relationship will fail anyway. Either you wont really be happy inside of it, because you can't think or act as yourself, or the other person you are trying to appease wont be happy because you aren't enough of the person that they want you to be.

  

 It doesn't make sense to let go of something you have wanted for so long, but it also doesn't make sense to hold on when theres nothing there.

One of the worst mistakes a person can make is to hold on to a relationship in which the other person just refuses to be present. We have to be willing to let go of relationships that dont make any sense.
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